It is all about confidence

Hi guys it’s Liss the one who wrote blogs and took a break, still on break but i thought i would just check in and talk a little. And, I saw Dani and many other bloggers do this and that is I am gonna talk about my body and such~

My body is.. how do I put this I am not fat but i’m not skinny. I am about average and I am pretty content but sometimes I get so down on myself. Yeah I can fit into a size 2 and apparently to some I seem confident but god oh god I am so insecure. And, you know when someone says something to you, good or bad? And, how it just sticks with you and stays with you? I have had some bad experiences in elementary school and even after years to come, I am still hung up over the fact that people have said mean shit to mean. To be blunt. And I try try try to be confident and project myself as this confident, funny girl but I feel like sometimes I am too annoying or too stubborn, or my voice annoys people and I am so insecure about my laugh. I cover my mouth when I laugh because someone has said my face looks so weird when I laugh. Truth be told shit happens, and I am carrying on. I took a vow sometime in elementary school to try to make people happy around me and just be that person people can go to if they have a problem. And because of that I believe so many people whenever they have problems come talk to me, even today I had a girl open up to me about overdoing drugs, family problems, abuse and I just wanted to help her. I am like the therapist in my group of friends people can talk to me i think. And some stuff I know you guys wouldn’t believe. I know i am going off task but my point is I feel happy even in my darkest moments I fake my confidence until I can gain some of my own

As long as we are on this topic I do wonder if anyone likes me, truly I wonder that all the time. Am i pretty? Does anyone like me? Am I appealing in anyway? I have no clue but to me I am pretty yeah I have liked boys who probably won’t like me but as long as i like me that’s all that matters.

My advice to everyone out there, it’s all about confidence, take it from me it’s really hard to be confident I know I get skiddish and shy around people i don’t know but then sometimes my whole purpose is to make those people laugh so it could be my first impression. Just fake that confidence and it doesn’t have to be a fast rapid progress it takes time just stay strong and if you ever feel low me and Dani are here,

And Dani I am here to help I promise I will get any boys who like you right now to get them to tell you by 8th grade and that’s what I am deciding right now so text me when you’re ready

Have a lovely day and good luck on finals hope this blog helped anyone

~Liss 🙂


Author: lyssndani

hey welcome to our blog! We are formally known as Alyssa and Danielle but on here you can call u Lyss and Dani. We usually blog when we can and when we do it’s usually some bullshit. But it’s our bullshit that we would love to share with you, welcome to the club!!

2 thoughts on “It is all about confidence”

  1. “Fake it till you make it” That is indeed kind of what I am doing with my confidence as well. I act like I am confident, in fact, I get nervous about everything and doubt compliments that someone gives me. But one day, I will get confident!

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